May 9, 2010
By: Evan J. Thomas
You may have noticed some subtle changes in your significant other’s behavior that just doesn’t seem right. Contrary to what your masculine side might think, you may not be the main subject of her desire.
If you have ever seen the show “Cheaters”, then you know some of the warning signs just by watching Joey Greco and crew bust out infidelity in relationships. Think it can’t happen to you? Well bud, it could be happening in your relationship. Since women are typically more detail-oriented than men, your girl is more likely to cover her cheating ways. Unless your planning on getting a detective to follow her every move I have compiled 7 signs that she is cheating on you.
1- She disengages herself from you
You and your ladylove used to go out, movies, dinners, cuddling and now she would rather be on the computer or doing something around the crib that doesn’t involve you.
2- She is quick tempered and/or defensive
You ask your main squeeze a question or offer to do something and she bites your head off, not literally but in a way that makes you want to crawl in a hole and hide.
3- She has a new workout and/or diet
NOTE: Unless she’s watching Biggest Loser or she has a wedding to attend in the coming months this really doesn’t apply.
Your heart’s desire has a sparking new interest for herself to get back in shape though she wasn’t really as interested in doing so before.
4- Change of wardrobe or new clothes
Your honey bunny all of a sudden is looking to spice up her look with some new threads.
5- Tells you she is working longer hours
The object of your affection could also be deceiving you by saying that she is spending more time out with the girls or hanging out with co-workers to disguise her extracurricular activity.
6- Secret texts/emails/phone calls
Your sugar muffin has become secretive with her gadgets by not answering texts or calls in your presence or giving you the “that was so and so whom I haven’t talked to in a while”.
7- Not interested in intimacy with you
Your soul mate has disconnected with you sexually, she doesn’t show the same fire as she did previously and the intimacy is lacking desire.
The previously named signs may not imply that she is in fact cheating on you, though take each sign as a potential warning that something is astray with your sweetheart. If she wants to make your relationship work she will take the necessary steps. Or you can just break up. Good luck and don’t think it can’t happen to you!